Natural Abortion

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Permalink Reply by Natural Cures on November 21, 2007 at 4:43pm

No doubt Michelle! I mean c'mon who are we trying to kid it's almost like the abortion clinic advocates set this account up and just wanted to stir up controversy... dunno just a thought.I sent you a message about your miessence link, i had a ? anyways talk 2 you l8r somewhere else...

Permalink Reply by Lisa on November 15, 2007 at 9:57am

I am going to reply to this keeping my personal feelings on abortion out of it. My fear is someone tries something like this and let's say it is unsuccessful. In the meantime, the mother has changed her mind and decided to keep the child. What effects will the attempted abortion have on the baby? If it is a successful pregnancy and the attempt caused damage, would that child have birth defects or be mentally challenged, etc... It is something to think about! This is not a decision that should be made without considering all possible scenarios.

Permalink Reply by Lisa on November 15, 2007 at 2:08pm

Nature has its own abortion...miscarriage. If your body isnt ready, or capable of carrying the fetus/baby to term, then it aborts it. Its a sad thing to go through. Ive had four miscarriages myself. I WILL add MY personal feelings here. There are alternatives to keeping/not keeping unwanted infants. But dont let their lives end, before they even begin. As Lisa says, what if something goes wrong in the process of the "natural" abortion that you speak of? Both the babys and mothers lives could be in jeapordy. There are a lot of things to think about before following through with something that you could regret for the rest of your life.

Permalink Reply by Natural Cures on November 21, 2007 at 4:44pm

u go girl!

Permalink Reply by Mari Mac on November 15, 2007 at 2:33pm

Yes! there are consequences to trying this and it not working. It will damage a fetus so if you are going to try this you need to have a back up plan for aborting the pregnancy. Thats great that everyone has thier own OPINION about abortion. However the women that have made the choice to cancel a pregnancy have well thought it out, trust me. Yes adoption is an option yet have you ever looked at the percentage of adopted children that actually grow up with a loving family? A staggering 5%. I WORK at a fertility clinic and help people everyday get pregnant. I've donated eggs six times myself and have 7 children and one on the way (from other women that is). Pregnancy has always been a choice. AND IT WAS IN THE BIBLE TOO!!! the Holy Book itself talk about Pennyroyal and it's ability to trigger late periods..... So Do some research and save your murder for someone who feels the same way. This post is for those who want to "trigger a late period" and don't want to have a rod and vaccuum cleaner stuck up thier uterus increasing the chance of not having future children.
GOD BLESS!

Permalink Reply by Tab on November 21, 2007 at 8:47am

Wow. There are always consequences good & bad. Personally I did have a rod & vaccuum cleaner stuck up my uterus, for what I believe was the murdering of my unborn child. I have never regreted anything more in my life!, and I've done lots. When I found out that I was pregnant I truly felt that I really didn't have any other choice but abortion for the sake of both my well being & my unborn child's. Now that I have, by the grace of God, two beautiful children, who are sometimes happy sometimes not, sometimes we go without, sometimes we shower ourselves with pleasures I realize that no matter what we were meant to be together, and the love we feel for one another, makes everything possible and worth while.
The day I had the abortion I went in feeling tough, like I didn't really have a choice and for the better of everyone envolved I had to bear down and do it. I found myself (whether in a dream or for real) during the abortion hearing everyone in the room talking, and all I wanted to do was tell them to stop, that I had CHANGED my mind...but it was too late. When I awoke I was crying uncontrolably, the nurses said I cried tears through out the procedure...my soul couldn't bear what I had done, even as tough as I was.
This was over 15 years ago, and I think of the child still, how wonderful it would have been to get to know this person even with all the harshness this world on earth has to offer. I still ask my murdered child for forgiveness, to be there waiting for me when I arrive. To this day I still cry.
I believe in choice, but as it happens so often, at the time we make our choices we can not even imagine what the consequences will be...I believe the same in true for having a child, so its so important to care for yourself before you are in a situation to have to make such a choice, if your are having sex protect yourself, body & mind.

Permalink Reply by Denise on November 21, 2007 at 9:20am

I'm with you on that one Tab, been there myself and truly regret doing what I did. What we can do now is stand up for the unborn and try to educate those who obviously don't understand what can happen when an abortion is done and the after effects. The after effects can last a lifetime for some. For myself, it took over 30 years to forgive myself. I have and know that the Lord has forgiven me and I need to accept his forgiveness. It is a very hard subject for me to confront because I know how hard it is to convince a pro choice person of the truth. That little cell is a real human being with a soul. God has or had a purpose for that individual that only He knows. God Bless you and I pray for you and those suffering from abortion. I hope for you and others that you too will find the grace to forgive yourself as I have. You have discovered the truth, you are almost there. God Bless, Denise

Permalink Reply by Tab on November 21, 2007 at 10:07am

Thanks Denise!
I read on one of these threads that not all women feel guilt about having an abortion and it makes me wonder if it is not a good thing then, perhaps, that they did not become parents at that time. It also makes me wonder what kind of parent they are if they chose to have children later on. How could one be a loving person, a loving maternal parent and not feel guilt over having made such a choice? I think I knew I would feel guilty even before I went through with it, and decided I would live with that guilt. Well I felt & feel guilty, am living with it, and wonder why the heck I convinced myself at the time that it was ok. Like you said those aborted children had a purpose! If anything, through this I've learned that when I feel like I have no choice I need to not make any choice...frankly once pregnant the choice has already been made to create life, and I chose to mess with that and I don't think the guilt of that will ever go away.
And without passing judgement, or so I strive, I question why it would be ok to give away your eggs to give a person the gift of a child, a person, a soul, but disagree with giving up a child for adoption? I don't get that.

Permalink Reply by Denise on November 21, 2007 at 10:24am

Tab, you have to remember why Jesus died on the cross. He died for all of our stupid sins. He took all our sins upon himself. If we can't forgive ourselves, then we reject the forgiveness Jesus has for us! When someone told me that, it was then I realized that I am not accepting Jesus's forgiveness! Accept His forgiveness and learn from your mistake. I sometimes think that those like you and myself are much stronger and able to go out to help those who have made the same mistake and also to teach others the truth before they make a mistake in getting an abortion. If it wern't for Jesus, we would never make it to heaven. That is where God wants us to be so He gave His only Son to die for our sins. Remember, we all make mistakes, each and everyone of us. To us humans, we tend to judge sins by how severe and not so severe they are. To God, a sin is a sin no matter how severe. Its what kept us all out of heaven until Jesus died, Think of how bad a sin is when Adam and Eve took the apple from the forbidden tree! To us, it wouldn't really be a sin. To God it was. Forgive yourself Tab, you can do it! Go on, live free and forget the guilt. Forgetting what you did won't happen, its those mistakes we all learn from and I believe you and I have. God Bless, Denise

Permalink Reply by Tab on November 21, 2007 at 10:34am

I'm gonna work on that :)
God Bless you
Tab

Permalink Reply by Christy on May 23, 2008 at 3:25pm

I would like to add that I have also made the choice to abort, and honestly I regret it more than anything. Nothing has ever made me feel so much sadness, emptiness and pain. I know that being a parent can be scary, and people will tell you that your life will be over if you keep the baby, I've been on both sides of the choice. I've felt the pressured from my parents to get an abortion,and I gave in to it once. But I stood up to them, and stood up for my unborn baby my second time around.
And being a mother is the best thing thats ever happened to me. It's not as hard as people say it is, and yes I've been a unemployed single mother before. But today I'm not and I'm stronger for it. Yes I'm still a single mother, but I've learned to support us on my own and I don't regret being a mom for one second.
I really think I got pregnant the second time to subconsciously fill the huge hole in my heart. Nothing will ever change what I did, please remember ladies there are no 'Take backs' if you choose to terminate a pregnancy you can never take it back. And yes it will be with you the rest of your life. If your real fear is being able to take care of your baby, take heart, you can do it. I did, some of my friends have and so can you.

Permalink Reply by Cynthia on December 25, 2007 at 3:39pm

first of all God would never approve an abortion. Good way of trying to use the HOLY BOOK to make what you think is right Right! Have you ever really read the bible tell me where it says abortions are ok. If you leave the fetus alone it turns in to a beautiful baby, thats not murder???Does a life deserve to be Canceled by natural remides, rod, or a vacuum cleaner!! I surely don't think so.

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